{"id":1625,"date":"2026-08-06T08:19:27","date_gmt":"2026-08-05T23:19:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nehan.life\/en\/?p=1625"},"modified":"2026-08-06T08:19:27","modified_gmt":"2026-08-05T23:19:27","slug":"why-i-stopped-overthinking-to-connect-with-my-subconscious","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nehan.life\/en\/why-i-stopped-overthinking-to-connect-with-my-subconscious\/","title":{"rendered":"Why I Stopped Overthinking in Search of a Way to Connect With My Subconscious"},"content":{"rendered":"<style>@import url('https:\/\/fonts.googleapis.com\/css2?family=Zen+Old+Mincho:wght@400;500;600;700&display=swap'); .nh-body{color:#3a352e;line-height:2.0;font-family:\"Zen Old Mincho\",\"Yu Mincho\",\"Hiragino Mincho ProN\",\"Yu Mincho\",serif;font-weight:400} .nh-body p{margin:0 0 22px}.nh-body strong{font-weight:600;background:linear-gradient(transparent 62%,#D8E4CF 62%);padding:0 1px} .nh-body h2{font-family:\"Zen Old 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#D9CEBB;border-bottom:none} .nh-refs p,.nh-refs li{font-size:10.5px;line-height:1.5;color:#a59c8c;margin:0 0 3px} .nh-refs ul,.nh-refs ol{margin:0 0 3px;padding-left:1.1em} .nh-refs a{color:#9aa890;word-break:break-all} .nh-lead{background:#F7FAF6;border:1px solid #E0DBC9;border-left:4px solid #52684A;border-radius:2px;padding:22px 26px;margin:6px 0 42px} .nh-lead__label{display:block;font-family:\"Avenir\",\"Avenir Next\",\"Helvetica Neue\",Arial,sans-serif;font-size:12px;letter-spacing:.3em;font-weight:600;color:#52684A;margin:0 0 12px} .nh-lead ul.nh-check{margin:0}.nh-lead .nh-check li{padding:8px 8px 8px 34px;font-size:15px}.nh-lead .nh-check li:last-child{border-bottom:0}<\/style>\n<div class=\"nh-body\">\n<h2>Key Takeaways<\/h2>\n<ul class=\"nh-check\">\n<li>Connecting with your subconscious is not about searching for the one \u201cright answer\u201d hidden somewhere in your mind. It is about creating a state in which you can notice the emotions, reactions, and choices that arise automatically.<\/li>\n<li>There are times when the more you think, the farther away the answer gets. Research suggests that when you are in a slightly better state of mind, your brain may be more able to connect different perspectives.<\/li>\n<li>A practical entry point is to stop rushing to interpret things, and begin recording your physical reactions and responses to things that feel personally relevant.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Monday morning, 9:12 a.m. A Slack notification arrives from your manager: \u201cDo you have a few minutes to talk today?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>That is all it says. Not a single detail. And yet your upper stomach tightens. Work that felt manageable yesterday suddenly starts to look unbearable.<\/p>\n<p>You know this, right? The notification is one line, but inside your head, there is already a full-length movie about being reassigned, receiving a bad evaluation, failing, and not being able to cover your living expenses. The director, screenwriter, and anxiety department are all the same person. And the running time is absurdly long.<\/p>\n<p>At that point, many of us try to make our minds work even harder: \u201cDon\u2019t overthink it.\u201d \u201cThink positive.\u201d But the more the mind turns, the more past failures and worst-case predictions can get added to the pile. It is not that you are struggling because you cannot think. In fact, people who are good at thinking can be the ones who gather too much material and corner themselves with it.<\/p>\n<p>If you have been looking for a way to connect with your subconscious, you may have felt this too: \u201cI don\u2019t know what I really want.\u201d \u201cI got stuck in the same place again.\u201d \u201cI can\u2019t explain why, but I feel rushed.\u201d Maybe anxiety hits while you are doing the dishes on a Sunday night. Maybe you keep reopening a chat screen with no reply, even though nothing changes when you do. You probably know this.<\/p>\n<p>I think the idea of the subconscious as a wise second self living deep inside you is only half true. If there were such a convenient consultation desk in the brain, no one would buy strange things online late at night. You would not find a delivery box the next morning and stare at it, wondering, \u201cWhy did I order this?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Connecting with your subconscious means becoming able to read the predictions, emotions, and physical responses already at work before they fully reach conscious awareness. It means noticing, without being swallowed by the reaction: \u201cOh, this is how I moved just now.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"nh-quote\">Before trying to arrive at an answer, look at what is moving you right now.<\/div>\n<h2>There Is a Brain-Based Reason You Can Understand Less the More You Think<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"nh-article-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/nehan.life\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/how-to-connect-with-subconscious-mind-img-1.png\" alt=\"\u6f5c\u5728\u610f\u8b58\u3068\u3064\u306a\u304c\u308b\u65b9\u6cd5\u3092\u63a2\u3057\u3066\u3001\u50d5\u304c\u300c\u8003\u3048\u8fbc\u3080\u300d\u3092\u3084\u3081\u305f\u7406\u7531 \u306e\u30a4\u30e1\u30fc\u30b8 1\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/figure>\n<p>Subramaniam et al. (2009) examined the brain mechanisms through which positive affect may facilitate insight-based problem solving. They found that participants whose mood had lifted slightly were about 20% more likely to reach a solution through insight, with increased activity observed in the prefrontal cortex and temporal lobe.<\/p>\n<p>Did you think, \u201cHere we go again\u2014just another argument for cheering up\u201d? If that is how it sounds, that is not quite it. Here, \u201cpositive\u201d does not mean forcing yourself into a high mood or smiling through something unpleasant. It means your brain can estimate, even slightly, that it does not need to prepare only for danger right now.<\/p>\n<p>The prefrontal cortex is involved in combining present information with memory and trying out different interpretations. The temporal lobe is also involved in associations among language and memory. When vigilance loosens a little, a one-way line of thought can develop side streets. It is like finally seeing an alternate route appear on a traffic-jammed highway. The destination may be the same, but you no longer have to assume there is only one way to get there.<\/p>\n<p>For example, it is 10 p.m. There are three glasses and a pot in the kitchen sink. Your partner says, \u201cYou still haven\u2019t washed these.\u201d On a day when you are exhausted, it can sound like blame. But after a cup of hot tea and five minutes of air on the balcony, you may be able to see: \u201cOh, they are tired too.\u201d The words have not changed. The meaning your brain selects has.<\/p>\n<p>Have you ever read a message in the morning and let it pass, then read the same kind of message on the train home after overtime and felt strangely pierced by it? The message did not change. The brain receiving it may simply have been in danger-scanning mode.<\/p>\n<p>That does not mean an unpleasant mood is meaningless. In the context of the same research, negative affect may also strengthen analytical thinking that attends closely to details. That can help you catch a typo before a deadline. It may also help when you need to question one line in a contract.<\/p>\n<p>But if you try to solve the question, \u201cWhat do I really want?\u201d with the anxious energy of 1 a.m., your brain can easily amplify danger detection above everything else. Should I change jobs? Should I break up? Is this life okay? You try to decide while looking at a screen in bed, and somehow every answer tilts toward the darker option. You know the feeling.<\/p>\n<p>This is an easy thing to miss. Rather than continuing to dig through painful feelings in order to get closer to your subconscious, it can sometimes help to lower the brain\u2019s alarm level first. People often say, \u201cThink it through completely.\u201d But my view is that the bigger the question in your life, the more important it is to regulate your state before you start thinking deeply. This is not \u201cdon\u2019t think.\u201d It is: do not hand your life decisions over to a brain whose alarm bell has been ringing without pause.<\/p>\n<div class=\"nh-point\">\n<p class=\"nh-point__label\">POINT<\/p>\n<p>Rather than demanding, \u201cTell me the answer,\u201d from your subconscious, ask, \u201cWhat does this version of me see as dangerous right now?\u201d Changing the question moves your attention from emotion itself to the mechanism behind your reaction.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<h2>Your Reactions Move Before Conscious Thought Does<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"nh-article-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/nehan.life\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/how-to-connect-with-subconscious-mind-img-2.png\" alt=\"\u6f5c\u5728\u610f\u8b58\u3068\u3064\u306a\u304c\u308b\u65b9\u6cd5\u3092\u63a2\u3057\u3066\u3001\u50d5\u304c\u300c\u8003\u3048\u8fbc\u3080\u300d\u3092\u3084\u3081\u305f\u7406\u7531 \u306e\u30a4\u30e1\u30fc\u30b8 2\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/figure>\n<p>Nakano Tamami et al. (2021) reported that briefly presenting a person\u2019s own face\u2014too briefly to be consciously recognized\u2014activated the striatum more strongly than presenting another person\u2019s face. The striatum is involved in reward and motivation. Information related to the self appears to receive special treatment in the brain before we can even put into words, \u201cThat is me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>This is not a spiritual claim. It is actually very ordinary.<\/p>\n<p>You hear a conversation playing near the register at a convenience store, and the moment your own name comes up, you look up without thinking. At a caf\u00e9, you have been letting the conversation next to you drift by, but only words you are dealing with right now\u2014\u201cchanging jobs,\u201d \u201cchildren,\u201d \u201crent\u201d\u2014stay in your ear. Your conscious mind says, \u201cI wasn\u2019t listening,\u201d but your brain has been sorting.<\/p>\n<p>You may be scrolling on your phone, quickly passing a friend\u2019s travel photos, only to stop at a promotion announcement from someone your own age. You reply with a smile, \u201cThat\u2019s great,\u201d and then, for some reason, your stomach feels heavy. If you pretend these reactions are not there, they tend to linger in small ways. Your words may be offering congratulations while your body is already saying, \u201cWait a second.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>That is why the entry point to connecting with your subconscious is not waiting for a grand message. You do not need an answer that strikes like lightning. You need to pick up on the words, expressions, and situations that make you react automatically. Your current interests, fears, and unmet needs can all be mixed into those reactions.<\/p>\n<p>I understand the wish to believe that writing an impressive question in a notebook will bring out your true feelings. But the more impressive the question, the more likely we are to manufacture an impressive answer. The moment you write, \u201cWhat is my mission?\u201d your writing starts to sound like a job interview. That is not the point. What remains is a much plainer kind of observation: Your shoulders rise just after you see a notification. Your fingertips grow cold after you smile at a friend\u2019s promotion announcement. These are records that may feel a little unflattering.<\/p>\n<p>What did you react to most quickly this past week?<\/p>\n<ul class=\"nh-check\">\n<li>A message you kept reading again and again<\/li>\n<li>A way someone spoke that made you irrationally angry<\/li>\n<li>A job listing or article that caught your eye for no clear reason<\/li>\n<li>A plan you said you were fine with, while your body felt heavy<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Do not file these four things under \u201cbad personality\u201d or \u201cweakness.\u201d A reaction is information, not a verdict. The person who irritates you may not simply be an unpleasant person. They may be saying something freely that you have not been able to say. Or they may carry an anxiety you do not want to touch in yourself. You do not need to decide what it means. But it is a waste to throw the reaction away carelessly.<\/p>\n<h2>Insight Is Less About How Active the Brain Is Than How It Connects<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"nh-article-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/nehan.life\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/how-to-connect-with-subconscious-mind-img-3.png\" alt=\"\u6f5c\u5728\u610f\u8b58\u3068\u3064\u306a\u304c\u308b\u65b9\u6cd5\u3092\u63a2\u3057\u3066\u3001\u50d5\u304c\u300c\u8003\u3048\u8fbc\u3080\u300d\u3092\u3084\u3081\u305f\u7406\u7531 \u306e\u30a4\u30e1\u30fc\u30b8 3\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/figure>\n<p>Onoda Keiichi (2022), drawing on integrated information theory, discusses how the degree of integration of information in the brain may be related to conscious experience. In this view, it is not enough for the brain to be highly active. The question is how much information from separate regions becomes connected as one unified experience.<\/p>\n<p>For example, during a meeting, you remember a past failure, read your manager\u2019s expression as anger, and feel your throat close. Memory, visual input, bodily sensation, and prediction have all become linked at once. It is no longer \u201cjust a meeting.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Someone furrows their brow slightly in the conference room, and suddenly you cannot find your words. In the elevator on the way home, the review session begins: \u201cMaybe I said something strange again.\u201d You have probably experienced a moment when far more than the immediate event came rushing in. In the room, there may only be your manager\u2019s expression. But in your brain, past mistakes, fear of evaluation, and physical tension are all connecting at the same time.<\/p>\n<p>This can work in the other direction too. At 7 a.m., you sit at your desk and look at the day\u2019s schedule. You notice the rain outside, the bitterness of coffee, a body that is still a little sleepy, and something you could not say yesterday. In that moment, the thought \u201cI want to change jobs\u201d may look more dimensional than before. It may be easier to see whether it is simple avoidance or a wish you have ignored for a long time.<\/p>\n<p>What matters here is not judging the sentence \u201cI want to change jobs\u201d as simply right or wrong. Do you only not want to go to work on rainy days? Does your body tighten in the same situations every week? Are there specific kinds of work that make you feel more alive? When you place the information side by side instead of discarding it one item at a time, an outline can emerge that thinking alone did not reveal.<\/p>\n<p>Using magnetoencephalography, Li et al. (2014) reported that the subjective sense of \u201cseeing\u201d or \u201cbecoming aware\u201d was associated not with temporary activity related to objective task performance or confidence, but with widespread, sustained low-frequency cortical activity. Consciousness may be less like a single point in the brain clicking on, and more like a broad network moving together to a certain degree.<\/p>\n<p>This does not mean that any low-frequency activity connects you to the subconscious. That would be a leap. Nor is it as simple as listening to a sound and automatically accessing your true feelings. Still, there is a rationale for giving multiple kinds of information\u2014breath, sound, body, memory, emotion\u2014a place to be, rather than anxiously staring at only one point.<\/p>\n<p>When you try to make a messy room look tidy by pushing everything into the closet, you still do not know what you own. When you lay things out on the floor for a moment, you can see, \u201cI haven\u2019t used this in years,\u201d or \u201cThis was something I actually needed.\u201d Time spent looking inward can be similar. Things may get a little messy, but you begin to see why they are messy.<\/p>\n<h3>A Small Entry Point You Can Create in Daily Life<\/h3>\n<figure class=\"nh-article-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/nehan.life\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/how-to-connect-with-subconscious-mind-img-4.png\" alt=\"\u6f5c\u5728\u610f\u8b58\u3068\u3064\u306a\u304c\u308b\u65b9\u6cd5\u3092\u63a2\u3057\u3066\u3001\u50d5\u304c\u300c\u8003\u3048\u8fbc\u3080\u300d\u3092\u3084\u3081\u305f\u7406\u7531 \u306e\u30a4\u30e1\u30fc\u30b8 4\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/figure>\n<p>Set aside just 10 minutes in which you do not try to pull out an answer. Turn your phone face down and place a single sheet of paper in front of you. This is not a time for a self-criticism session.<\/p>\n<p>The moment you think, \u201cI have to find something in 10 minutes,\u201d you are already trying too hard. It is okay if nothing appears that day. Some days, all you notice may be the hum of the refrigerator. Even then, there is value in stepping out of your usual autopilot for a moment.<\/p>\n<div class=\"nh-steps\">\n<div class=\"nh-step\"><span class=\"nh-step__no\">01<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"nh-step__body\">\n<p class=\"nh-step__t\">Name your state<\/p>\n<p class=\"nh-step__d\">Write one word for what you sense right now: \u201crestless,\u201d \u201csluggish,\u201d \u201chopeful.\u201d Do not analyze why yet.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"nh-step\"><span class=\"nh-step__no\">02<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"nh-step__body\">\n<p class=\"nh-step__t\">Check where it is in your body<\/p>\n<p class=\"nh-step__d\">Look specifically at where the response is showing up: your neck, throat, stomach, palms. Do not work hard to control your breathing.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"nh-step\"><span class=\"nh-step__no\">03<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"nh-step__body\">\n<p class=\"nh-step__t\">Keep the before and after of the reaction<\/p>\n<p class=\"nh-step__d\">Briefly note what you saw just before it happened, who you were with, or what words were used. Over a few days, patterns may begin to appear.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>If you suddenly feel anxious about the future at 11 p.m. after getting into bed, do not write only, \u201cI\u2019m anxious about the future.\u201d Write: \u201c11 p.m. Right after I turned off the lights. Saw a post from a classmate about buying a home. Throat feels tight.\u201d This gives you something you can work with later: what your brain picked up as self-relevant information, and what kind of prediction it created.<\/p>\n<p>The difference may look small, but it is significant. If you write, \u201cI am the kind of person who is anxious about the future,\u201d it becomes a story about your personality and ends there. But if you write, \u201cMy throat tightened after I turned off the lights and saw a comparison-triggering post,\u201d you can see it as a connection between an event and a bodily reaction. It becomes usable data rather than material for blaming yourself.<\/p>\n<p>You do not need to force yourself into a good mood in order to have insight. But you can use small ways of restoring your footing. Listen to one favorite song. Walk around the neighborhood for five minutes. Wash your hands in cold water. Go to the convenience store, buy a warm drink, and look up at the sky while you wait at the crosswalk. That is enough.<\/p>\n<p>The study by Subramaniam et al. involved temporary mood induction; it does not determine what happens over an entire lifetime. Even so, it may help widen a narrowed field of attention a little. You may not be able to solve a major decision right now, but you may be able to widen the world you can see by a few centimeters. I do not think we should underestimate those few centimeters.<\/p>\n<h2>When Observing Alone Still Brings You Back to the Same Place<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"nh-article-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/nehan.life\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/how-to-connect-with-subconscious-mind-img-5.png\" alt=\"\u6f5c\u5728\u610f\u8b58\u3068\u3064\u306a\u304c\u308b\u65b9\u6cd5\u3092\u63a2\u3057\u3066\u3001\u50d5\u304c\u300c\u8003\u3048\u8fbc\u3080\u300d\u3092\u3084\u3081\u305f\u7406\u7531 \u306e\u30a4\u30e1\u30fc\u30b8 5\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/figure>\n<p>\u201cEven when I write things down, I always end up at the same conclusion.\u201d Did you think that? Honestly, I understand. Looking inward can become like walking the same shopping street in circles without a map. You pass the bakery, then the pharmacy, and think, \u201cHere I am again.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Your notebook fills with insights, but you repeat the same anxiety in relationships. At work, you go quiet in the same situations again. You understand it, but nothing changes. That may be the most frustrating part. \u201cI know\u201d does not always do much in real life.<\/p>\n<p>Cognitive behavioral therapy distinguishes between automatic thoughts and the beliefs that support them. For example: \u201cThey have not replied\u201d is an event. \u201cThey dislike me\u201d is an interpretation. \u201cI am someone who gets put last\u201d is a deeper belief. When these layers become mixed together, the events may keep changing while the reaction remains hard to shift.<\/p>\n<p>During your office lunch break, you open the unread chat screen over and over. The fact is only that there has been no reply. But your brain brings along old experiences of being left behind and rushes to the conclusion, \u201cHere it is again.\u201d An automatic thought happens in an instant. Underneath it, however, may be a more deeply rooted belief such as, \u201cI am not important,\u201d or \u201cIf I cause trouble, I will be abandoned.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>So what you need in that moment is not to paint over the experience with positive words. You can repeat, \u201cI am loved,\u201d but if your body is still shrinking, your brain will not be convinced. Instead, look separately at the fact, the interpretation, and the bodily response. There is no reply. I thought they disliked me. My stomach feels heavy. These are not the same thing. Once you can separate them, a little space can finally open between you and the reaction.<\/p>\n<p>At nehan\u2019s *Journey to See Your Life Flash Before Your Eyes*, we have designed a gradual, three-day, two-night process in the forests of Yatsugatake for this sense of \u201cI understand it intellectually, but I still return to the same reaction.\u201d It combines sound resonance, work with breathing, and bodily sensation. The aim is not to make you someone who can think even more. It is to move toward a state in which there is more distance between you and old reaction patterns, and where you can re-experience what you have feared and what you have wanted as something you can actually feel.<\/p>\n<p>You may write in your notebook again and again, think, \u201cThat makes sense,\u201d right after writing\u2014and then wake to another Slack notification the next morning and feel your stomach tighten all over again. At times like that, you do not need to add more willpower on your own. For something you understand in your head to reach your body\u2019s reactions, you may need a different environment and a different amount of time.<\/p>\n<p>I see a retreat not as an escapist holiday, but as a training ground for updating your inner way of being. I want to be clear about that. This is not about changing simply because you rested in nature. Stepping away from daily life is not about abandoning it. It is about creating some distance from the predictions made by your usual roles, notification sounds, and calendar\u2014and making different choices more available when you return.<\/p>\n<p>Employee, parent, partner, subordinate, manager. When you wear those roles every day, it becomes difficult even to see what you are reacting to. So you step away for a while. Not to run away, but to become able to read your own reactions again. Connecting with your subconscious is not about acquiring a special ability. It is about becoming able to catch yourself, even partway through, when you have begun running on your own.<\/p>\n<h2>FAQ<\/h2>\n<p><strong>Q: When I connect with my subconscious, will I hear my true feelings as words?<\/strong> <strong>A:<\/strong> For some people, things do emerge clearly as words. But what often appears first is bodily tension, recurring emotions, or plans you avoid for no obvious reason. The report by Nakano Tamami et al. (2021) on unconscious responses to one\u2019s own face also suggests that reactions to self-related information can arise before conscious recognition. If your hand stops while getting ready in the morning the moment you see a certain appointment, begin by recording that response rather than quickly trying to erase it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Q: My mind is full of distractions when I meditate. Does that mean I am not suited to it?<\/strong> <strong>A:<\/strong> Having distracting thoughts is not itself a sign of failure. In the findings on consciousness discussed by Li et al. (2014), subjective awareness was related to sustained activity across broad brain networks. Rather than treating it as a competition to make your thoughts zero, it can be more useful to notice, \u201cI was thinking about laundry,\u201d or \u201cMy shoulders are tense,\u201d and return. You may be absentmindedly looking at advertisements on the evening train and notice that you are thinking about tomorrow\u2019s lunch. That is enough to be standing at the entrance.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Q: Should I avoid reflecting on myself on days when my mood is low?<\/strong> <strong>A:<\/strong> It depends on your state that day. Subramaniam et al. (2009) reported a tendency for insight-based solutions to increase in positive emotional states. On days when you feel low, it may be better to make it a day for writing down just one fact, rather than reaching a conclusion about your life. If you begin drafting an email about a major decision late at night, save it as a draft and read it again the next morning. This is not avoidance; it is a way of accounting for the state of your brain.<\/p>\n<p>Understanding something intellectually alone does not easily loosen automatic reactions. That is why it can help to have a place where you can understand why you keep stopping in the same place and revisit it with bodily sensation included.<\/p>\n<p>In our free online course, we share more specifically how to rethink your relationship with the subconscious, and how to approach layers that can be difficult to reach through everyday observation alone. If you want to step away from the work of blaming yourself for your reactions, receive what comes next here.<\/p>\n<div class=\"nh-cta\">\n<p class=\"nh-cta__eyebrow\">FREE PROGRAM<\/p>\n<p class=\"nh-cta__title\">A doorway to seeing your life anew \u2014 through the body<\/p>\n<p class=\"nh-cta__lead\">Add us on LINE to receive the free online lessons \u2014 the parts we couldn&#8217;t fit into this article.<\/p>\n<div class=\"nh-cta__rule\"><\/div>\n<p>  <a class=\"nh-cta__btn\" href=\"https:\/\/om.nehan.life\/line\/open\/XOyz4TM3QCnV\" style=\"color:#fff !important;text-decoration:none\"><span class=\"label\" style=\"color:#fff !important\">Get the free lessons on LINE<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"nh-cta__note\">Free to join, unsubscribe anytime. This is not medical treatment; results vary by individual.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"nh-refs\">\n<h2>Sources \/ References<\/h2>\n<ul class=\"nh-check\">\n<li>Subramaniam, K., Kounios, J., Parrish, T. B., &amp; Jung-Beeman, M. (2009). A Brain Mechanism for Facilitation of Insight by Positive Affect. *Journal of Cognitive Neuroscience*, 21(3), 415\u2013432.<\/li>\n<li>\u4e2d\u91ce\u73e0\u5b9f\uff082021\uff09\u300c\u81ea\u5206\u306e\u9854\u3092\u512a\u5148\u51e6\u7406\u3059\u308b\u8133\u306e\u4ed5\u7d44\u307f\u3092\u767a\u898b\u300dResOU.<\/li>\n<li>\u5c0f\u91ce\u7530\u6176\u4e00\uff082022\uff09\u300c\u610f\u8b58\u306e\u795e\u7d4c\u57fa\u76e4\u3068\u8907\u96d1\u6027\u300d*\u65e5\u672c\u751f\u7406\u5fc3\u7406\u5b66\u4f1a\u8a8c* 40\u5dfb1\u53f7, 93\u2013113.<\/li>\n<li>Li, Q., Hill, Z., &amp; He, B. J. (2014). A magnetoencephalography study addressing the temporal\/spatial separation of brain activity related to consciousness, objective performance, and confidence.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>This article provides general information and is not medical advice. If you have concerns about your physical or mental health, please consult a qualified professional. 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